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What do Girls Find Irritating in Guys

What do Girls Find Irritating in Guys 

Even most people in the world have done tons of Irritating things. While you may be acutely aware of some of them, there are numbers of things that boys do & that irritate girls but you don't realize what you're doing—and make the worst image,.you may be done irritating things in the workplace that coworkers became frustrated, these are the most irritating quality in the guy that girl’s hate in there eyes. And for more etiquette errors you're probably making. 

What do Girls Find Irritating in Guys

Irritating Qualities In Guys

Lack of Chivalry. In this modern-day and age, my observation is Chivalry is really odd and missing. I’ve seen like …  two guys for the last few years that were genuine cavaliers. Most others were just “trying too hard” to look like ones. And were failing of course since the minute they weren’t around the girls of interest they transformed back to what they were naturally. As David D says – if you want to attract fake women, be a fake man.

Keep in mind here we’re talking about very light chivalry manners. Not the whole package by the old movies and books.

Irritating Qualities In Guys

While thinking about it – there is something that makes a woman feel more feminine in the hands of a chivalrous man indeed. Never underestimate that!

Something to add before getting in the next one – the girl that actually complained about men not being cavaliers had behavior that didn’t match what she was looking for. She was kind of a female jerk in a way. Definitely turn on for men, just not the chivalrous type. Last time I checked women didn’t actually know very well what they wanted ;) (no offense meant).

Making elephant from the ant. Ok, that is directly translated from my old language. It’s an old saying. Basically, it translates ego problems. A man who sees a little issue and makes a big deal of it. This to me looks like the general issue, not gender-specific. Deeply rooted with low self-esteem, bad temper, and a lot, lot more factors. It’s rather broad to dig more into it. No one likes that kind of person.

Not being sincere. Well, this is also non-gender specific. Actually, women are very natural at sensing when the man is hiding the truth. Not being sincere usually fails in the long run, it’s taxing for the mind and won’t allow you to connect with the person genuinely. Honest people will always have an easy time connecting to others and gaining their trust. It’s an observation.

Not considering her opinion. This is the biggie.

Actually not taking in mind her opinion can mean the guy is not respecting the girl and doesn’t trust her judgment. Lack of respect usually leads to a mutual lack of respect which results in a very unhappy relationship.

You know many of guru’s advice to act like she’s your little brat but there’s more to it. Do it in a funny, teasing way, not in a dishonorable “woman is lesser than men” way. Doing it for real will have a whole different vibe to it. And unless you won't end with the issue bags, try to stay respectful.

Being emotionally boring. While thinking about this only one thing comes into my mind.

Being average.

This is so general it’s just painful. Usually, more than half of the dating advice out there is based not to be emotionally boring. People and women as well are attached to positive emotions. Being associated with the source of positive emotions is king! People will be happy around you and look to invite you to parties and social events.

Being average

To be honest I can’t give specific advice here. You can take any dating advice or do anything interesting and get benefits out of it. This holds true from most angles – being emotionally boring is not attractive.

Think of this saying – “If you’re being bored the chances are you’re are boring yourself”. Holds some truth.

1.Lack of sense of humor

Even the bad dating advice have to agree with this one – the sense of humor is always welcome! No matter where or when the sense of humor is appreciated by all women! Ok, there are some places and times you shouldn’t really hit it with jokes and teases like funerals and airport security checks.

2.However – on the humor side – 

Be careful not to sound too offensive which might be taken as rude. Always go lighthearted and you’ll make no mistake. I know David D says to do it with a serious face. However, before you get good as David D be careful. Not to mention if you even consider his style.

3.Fake Confidence

No one likes fake people, except other fake people. Faking confidence is usually transparent to other people and especially visible to women. Guys who act (underline act) super confident are usually the ones classy women laugh at.

4.Nice guys

In the terms of pleasing every action of the woman even when she is clearly abusing them. Nothing bad being nice, however here we’re talking about the typical – “I give all my power to you although you don’t give me a dime of respect” type. Nice guys in that term freak women out (except the ones that abuse nice guys).

5.Showing off with more than he can handle/have – 

This goes with the Fake confidence. Getting way over themselves is a tactic for the show-offs. A guy does that to impress his social circle and of course women. Impressing people with something like that rarely works (unless you’re with the bottom feeders which I hope you aren’t). Trying to impress women with your possessions and deeds by just stating them is not impressive. Not to mention if they are fake. I know sometimes people get the urge to say or do something over their ability. If you detect something like this happening in you – think again before doing it. Might save you embarrassment.

6.Boring, non-talkative – 

I have to say this is a personal preference. Some women prefer the strong and silent type. Other women prefer a guy who can talk his way out of situations, including such created by her. However – being boring and being talkative are different things. You may speak the heck out of everything and still be exciting as river stone … in the river. The easiest way to not being boring is … to be funny (I know – I’m a pure genius).

7.Seeking approval by compliments – 

You know those guys – they see a pretty woman and they unleash compliments as no tomorrow! Usually, women tend to filter those compliments if they are real or not. Most of the time they are just fodder that hopes to get in their pants. And does not succeeds. However, if the girl is still inexperienced (means young, never had a serious boyfriend, lacks self-confidence, has no direction in life) and the guy is semi-smooth – such compliments actually work. My advice is against that since it’s rather fake and non-sincere. Not to mention the girl will feel sad and disappointed by men afterward. Don’t contribute to another girl stating all men are the same. Thank you!

And with this, we end the mini analysis. Although the answers are rather chaotic for my liking you can see that there is a pattern in all of them. And most of them do actually match with many dating advice out there. My advice is not to listen to what women say all of the time in terms of such advice but use it as an indicator that might give a clue.

Frequently asked questions

What are the top most annoying things a boyfriend can do?

  • Pretending to listen when he's obviously not! 
  • Buying expensive gifts without much thought.
  • Keeping a check of everywhere you're going.

Why are boys irritating?

Probably because they are so different from girls. Most likely because girls and guys don't understand each other all that well.

What are Things of mine Annoying Everyone Around me ?

  • Walking slowly on a busy sidewalk. 
  • Tapping your foot.
  • Taking days to respond. 
  • Mumbling in a conversation. 
  • Making yourself too comfortable in someone else's home.