Sure Signs a coworker likes you

Relationships at work can be complicated and tricky to navigate, especially when you're trying to confirm whether or not your coworker likes you. But with the right detective work, it's possible to find out whether your suspicions are true! In this article, we discuss 30 signs a coworker likes you  - even if they're introverted, like many people in the workplace. 

30 Signs a coworker likes you

30 Signs a coworker likes you

1. They Make Eye Contact and Smile

When you're talking to your co-worker, do they maintain eye contact and smile? This is usually a good sign that they're interested in you and what you're saying. If they can't seem to look you in the eye or their smile seems forced, it may be an indication that they don't share your feelings.

2. They Seek You Out for Conversation

Introverts can be quite content staying in their own little world, so if your co-worker goes out of their way to seek you out for conversation, it's a pretty good sign they like you. This is especially true if they make an effort to talk to you even when there are other people around - they're clearly not just looking for an easy way to pass the time!

3. They Remember the Things You Tell Them

Do they remember the details of the stories you've told them or the things you've said? If so, it's likely because they're interested in you and want to get to know you better. Pay attention to see if they ask follow-up questions or make comments that show they were really listening to what you said.

4. They Have you seen them looking at you?

If you've noticed your co-worker looking at you more often than usual, it might be a sign that they like you. Sometimes introverts can be more difficult to read, but there are still some telltale signs that they're interested. If you notice them making eye contact with you across the room or catching your eye when you're talking, it's a good sign that they're attracted to you. They might also try to find excuses to talk to you or spend time near you. If you think your co-worker likes you, see if they return your interest by flirting back or spending more time with them outside of work. 

5. Do they ask you personal questions?

If your coworker is asking you personal questions, it might be a sign that they're interested in getting to know you better. For example, they might ask about your weekend plans or what you did last night. They might also ask about your family or your hobbies. If they keep the conversation going by asking follow-up questions, it's a good sign that they're interested in what you have to say. 

If you think your co-worker likes you, try answering their questions honestly and see where the conversation goes from there.They might not come right out and say they like you, but they're definitely interested in learning more about you.

They want to know more about you and your life outside of work. This is a great way to get to know someone better and develop a deeper relationship.

6. Do they tease you?

Teasing can be a sign of flirting, especially if it's playful and good-natured. If your co-worker is constantly teasing you, it might be a sign that they like you. For example, they might make jokes about your clothes or the way you talk. They might also give you nicknames or playfully poke fun at you. If the teasing is constant and feels more like harassment, however, it's probably not a sign of flirting. If you think your co-worker is teasing you in a flirtatious way, try responding in kind and see how they react.

7. Do they look sad when they see you leaving?

It can be difficult to tell if an introverted co-worker likes you, but one way to tell is by observing their reaction when you leave. If they look sad or disappointed when you say goodbye, it's a good sign that they enjoy your company and would like to spend more time with you.

There are other signs to look for as well, such as whether they ask personal questions or make an effort to include you in conversations. But if you notice that your introverted co-worker seems bummed every time you leave, it's a pretty clear sign that they like being around you.

8. Do they seek out your company, or try to chat with you when you're alone?

If your co-worker constantly seeks you out, or tries to chat with you when you're alone, it's a good sign they like you. They might not be the most outgoing person, but that doesn't mean they don't want to get to know you better. 

9. Do they compliment you?

If your co-worker gives you compliments, it's a sign they appreciate you. They might not be the most outgoing person, but that doesn't mean they don't think highly of you.

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If your co-worker likes you, they may offer you compliments on a regular basis. They might compliment your work, your outfit, or something you said in a meeting. If they are an introvert, they may not be as vocal about their compliments as others, but they will still make an effort to let you know when they appreciate something about you. 

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Have they started doing something that seems familiar - like ordering the same drink as you, or adding a topping to their salad just because of what you ordered last time?

If your co-worker starts to do things that are familiar to you, it could be a sign that they like you. For example, if they start ordering the same drink as you or adding a topping to their salad that you ordered last time, it could be because they want to be like you or they are trying to make a connection with you. 

10. Have they told you that they have a crush on someone at work?

If your co-worker has told you that they have a crush on someone at work, it could be a sign that they are interested in you. They may tell you this in an attempt to gauge your reaction or to see if you are interested in them as well.

11. Do they always seem to be around when you need help with something?

If your co-worker is always around when you need help with something, it could be because they want to be helpful or they want to spend time with you. This is especially true if they offer to help you with tasks that they don’t normally help with.

12. Are they always eager to help

If your co-worker is always eager to help, it's a good sign that they like you. They may be shy or introverted, but they still want to be helpful and supportive. If you need help with something, don't hesitate to ask them. They'll be more than happy to help you out. 

13. Do they make an effort to talk to you

If your co-worker makes an effort to talk to you, it's a good sign that they like you. They may not be the most outgoing person in the world, but they still want to get to know you better. If you have a chance to talk, take it. You'll probably find that they're a great conversationalist.

14. They ask you for advice

If your co-worker comes to you for advice, it's a good sign that they trust and respect you. They may be an introvert, but that doesn't mean they don't like or need social interaction. Asking for your advice shows that they value your opinion and want to connect with you on a deeper level.

15. You have common interests

If you and your co-worker share common interests, it's likely that you'll get along well. You may have similar personality types, values, or hobbies. This can make it easier to find things to talk about and bond over.

16. They invite you to social events

If your co-worker invites you to social events outside of work, it's a good sign that they want to be friends. They may invite you to happy hour, a party, or another event where you can relax and get to know each other better.

17. They make an effort to talk to you

If your co-worker makes an effort to talk to you, it's a good sign that they want to be friends. They may seek you out at work, start conversations with you, or invite you to lunch. This shows that they value your company and want to get to know you better.

18. They come to you for backup when needed

If your co-worker is an introvert, they may not be the most vocal person in the office. However, you can tell they like you if they come to you for backup when needed.

This may manifest itself in a number of ways. For example, if there's a project or task that needs to be done and your co-worker knows you're good at it, they may ask you for help. Or, if there's a problem that needs to be solved, your co-worker may come to you for advice.

In either case, it's a sign that your co-worker trusts and respects you enough to seek out your help. And that's definitely a good sign that they like you! 

19. They invite you to join them for lunch or after-work drinks

If your co-worker invites you to join them for lunch or after-work drinks, it's a pretty clear sign that they like you. After all, why would they invite you to join them if they didn't want your company?

Of course, there's always the possibility that your co-worker is just being friendly. But if they've invited you to lunch or drinks on multiple occasions, it's more likely that they like you and want to spend time with you outside of work.

20. They include you in inside jokes

Inside jokes are a great way for friends and co-workers to bond with each other. And if your co-worker includes you in inside jokes, it's a good sign that they see you as a friend.

Of course, not all inside jokes are created equal. Some may be harmless and funny while others may be mean-spirited and designed to exclude others. If your co-worker includes you in the latter type of inside joke, it may be best to distance yourself from them.

However, if they include you in harmless and funny inside jokes, it's a good sign that they

21. They're friendly and energetic around you

If your co-worker is friendly and energetic around you, it's a good sign that they like you. They may not be the most outgoing person in the world, but they'll definitely make an effort to talk to you and get to know you better. This is a great way to start building a friendship or even a more intimate relationship. 

22. They laugh at your jokes

Even if your jokes aren't that funny, a co-worker who laughs at them is definitely interested in you. They're trying to show you that they enjoy your company and that they think you're funny. It's a great way to break the ice and get to know each other better.

23. They invite you out after work

If a co-worker invites you out after work, it's definitely a sign that they like you. They want to spend more time with you and get to know you better. This is a great opportunity to develop a friendship or even a more intimate relationship.

24. They give you compliments, but not too many or too awkwardly like a crush would

If your co-worker pays you compliments that are genuine and not too frequent, it could be a sign that they like you. They might compliment your work performance or tell you that they enjoy working with you. If the compliments seem excessive or overly personal, it could be a sign that they have a crush on you. 

25. They invite you to lunch or after-work drinks

If your co-worker invites you to lunch or happy hour, it could be a sign that they like you. They might want to spend more time with you outside of work hours. If they’re always inviting you to social events or asking if you want to grab coffee, it could be a sign that they have a crush on you.

26. They remember things about you

Remembering small details about someone is a way to show that you’re interested in them. If your co-worker remembers things like your favorite food or drink, it could be a sign that they like you. They might also remember things about your family or hobbies. If they can’t seem to remember